I had a powerful Structural Consult with Simon. I was blown away, as were my underlying assumptions, conditions and other made-up stuff under which I’ve been operating- as if they were ‘gospel’. The session brought clarity and opened my heart and blew my mind. It was a simple process in a way, but don’t confuse that with easy! A lot of tension for me! Simon challenged so many of my default constructs which have kept me unconsciously in negative vision. The time flew and I’m so very grateful for the focus and clarity of Simon’s intervention. Service at the highest level. Thank you!

It helped me to actually move on and start doing things instead waiting when I will be ready with my website, and other stuff. So I feel unstuck and creating.

One of the main things that the session helped me with was decreasing the ‘bad-othering’ I was doing. During the session I realized how many subconscious contracts I was making with others in my head, thinking that in order for them to be a good friend/partner/person, they would show up in a certain way. The main theme that came out of the session was allowing myself to want what I want and others to want what they want. While I don’t always practice this, it does help me empathize and allow the other person to have conflicting desires without thinking that they are ‘bad’ because of it. I had a few conflicts with friends where I really wanted to have a discussion with them about what had happened and they did not want to have those conversations. I really wrestled with my feelings, either that I was bad for wanting to bring up past baggage, or they were bad for not wanting to go there with me. However, now I realized that I do really want friendships who can openly talk through conflicts – but I also understand the perspective of wanting friendships who don’t bring up the past and focus on the present. People have a lot of conflicting priorities in their lives and my priority of resolving past conflict is not better than someone’s priority of wanting to have light and easy interactions that don’t delve into conflict. It can still really hurt to go for something and be rejected, but bad othering makes me displace those feelings of hurt by blaming others rather than processing my own feelings and eventually moving on.

The session really helped me take out the meaning of people’s actions and focus on what I really wanted. It made me focus more on finding the match in my life – rather than forcing a spark between two conflicting desires.

The two hour session I had with Simon was a game changer for me. It wasn’t like any other coaching I’ve experienced. I kept waiting for him to take me through a process. Instead, he kept asking me questions so that we both got more and more clear about what I want and my experience of what is actually going on within me and in my life. I found being questionioned uncomfortable because I could hear as I answered his questions how confused and conflicted I was. I began to feel silly but Simon never made me feel bad. In fact quite the opposite; because he kept delving to ascertain the structure, I felt really grateful for his focus and time. It felt like we were unravelling a ball with many pieces of string and as we did a picture began to emerge which made sense to me and explained many things. So I feel freer to be me and everyone else is free to be themselves. Thank you so much.

I had a structural consultation session with Simon in January this year and the power of knowing and acknowledging the truth from that session is still having ripple effects for me. Simon created such a supportive and non-judgemental space for my truth to arise and the easeful way he asked questions and clarified what I was replying with really allowed me to open and acknowledge an aspect of my own consciousness that I had completely made up and that had been holding me back since childhood.

Without going into details of it all, this session allowed me to see that I had created a very limited and constricted approach to relationships, which was affecting my business and my personal life. Through this session, Simon guided me to the realisation that though the situations I was speaking about did actually happen, what I had made them mean about me and others had no basis in reality. I was guided back to the truth that I am free to be me and that others are free to be them. The structure I was living in and defining my life by has no basis in reality. And now this structure is crumbling as I redefine relationships and my relationship to them.

Thank you Simon for such a transformative session, I didn’t know on the day the ripples it would have… and it has taken some time for me to see how things are moving. I am so grateful that you are sharing this work with the world.

As I was describing what I perceived to be a problem to Simon, he was able to hone in […] and went deeper. He […] got me to reflect on how I saw myself. My takeaway from this session is the awareness of the underlying belief that drives my actions and outcomes.

You had been so patient with me […] and […] made me realize the point I was and decide my choice. My take away after our session is: I am not obliged to use my potential, it is a free every day choice. And this was a great relief for me; it was like I got rid of a big pressure of my shoulders. It is a reference point for me for now on ringing in my head: I am not obliged to use my gifts, it is a free choice. The next question for me is: Do I feel obliged to do this? and this is a relief for me. This dosen’t mean I am not doing anything, but it changes my perspective.