Coaching Ressources

  1. Choice formulation (DE)
  2. Limiting Beliefs
  3. Enneagram Type (DE)
  4. Dysfunctional Formation: Top Line
  5. Structural Thinking (DE)
  6. Structural not Personal (DE)


  1. Unschuld
  2. Individuation
  3. Deine Fülle
  4. Schriftliche Führung

Tools for working with resistance

  1. Choices (connecting with end results)
  2. Straight out Intuition Reading
    • Observing the obvious
    • Circle of knowing
    • Talking symbols
  3. Conflict Deconstruction Process (DE)
    • Conflict with Integrity
  4. Genius Alignment Process (DE)
  5. Self-Mastery Method
  6. Dysfunctional Attention Transformation System (DATS)
  7. Circle Work (with Bridges)
    • Truth/Resistance circles
    • Will/Resistance Circles
    • Creator/Victim Circles
    • Opposite Definition Circles (e.g. have permission/don’t have permission)
  8. Screen status: Stuck, oscillating, flowing
    • Clarify: How long is it stuck/oscillating? Why have you not done something about it?
      • If it’s stuck or oscillating there is an egoic competing agenda. Conditions your ego wants to fulfill first before going after the vision. Need to unterstand what’s going on in the clients consciousness and to uncover the false agenda competing with the true agenda. Otherwise just giving the ego the power if one makes choices like that!
    • Discover: False endresult & neutralize it! Do ‘Vision, Current Reality, Bridge’ with the intention to discover it.

Self Mastery Method

  1. STEP 1: Name the problem. Just acknowledging it, turns you to the observer. You are not the problem anymore! You are powerful!
  2. STEP 2: Acknowledge that you are creating the problem. Without that acknowledgement you cant go further. Honest on your heart. Subconscious got the message: You are the creator of the problem! And therefore powerful! You are taking responsibility!! Hardly anyone acknowledges their problem nor takes responsibility.
  3. STEP 3: Why are you creating the problem? What is it designed to achieve? What is the payoff? You create it, therefore you want to achieve sth with a payoff! Every action in a Dysfunctional Formation is designed to achieve something. “We succeed at everything we undertake, and when we undertake failure we undertake it as well.” → Circle
  4. STEP 4:
    • Is that what you really want? “No”.
    • What do you really want? Connect with your greatness, imagine a ball of light, rising up into your light!
  5. STEP 5:
    • How does your Creator Self relate to your wound? Step into their CS circle → become their creator.
    • How does your Creator Self relate to your true choice?
  6. STEP 6:
    • Choose what you really want. Picture and feel what you want! Changing lanes!
    • Act like it!

Conflict with Integrity

  1. Conflict or dilemma:→ Recognising Im in conflict / reaction! Notice that you react: “I have a problem”! Then you turn to observator – your not in it anymore!
  2. Admitting problem: Yes!
  3. Be with the emotional pain of what it is: Boredom, anxiousness, anger..
  4. What do I feel I need to do to get the pain away / resolve the tension:
  5. Dont do that!! Let go of the charge – your not defeated etc.
  6. Rise above it Take the higher Perspective
  7. How do you see it now?
  8. What is our true response?
  9. Do that! Use your will and follow through!

Circle Work

Resistance is created through definitions. We developed those definitions when we were infants, we couldn’t do things without permission – BIG thing! Definitions such as:

  • “I dont have permission”
  • “I cant do it”
  • “I have no capability”
  • “Its not my role”

Definition pop out of Current Reality.

Truth Resistance Circles

Within your consciousness exist all frequencies, you are the whole universe. Allow yourself to see what is. E.g. inside you there are 2 distinct aspects, 2 structures or if you will 2 identities: The lower and the higher.

Do Circles (1-2 min each): Results, Feelings, Behaviour:


  • Wounded boy/girl
  • Student
  • Identity
  • Victim
  • Resistance
  • Co-Dependancy / Merged


  • Wise spirit
  • Expert
  • Higher Self
  • Creator
  • Will / Truth
  • In(ter)dependent / Free

Become who you are: Be the higher and know yourself as the wise spirit. The lower or your little boy: Your thoughts & feelings. Don’t identify with them, just feel them. And be the wise spirit!

The sun is always there, even if there are clouds. Assume that and expect that. Become the wise spirit you are!

Transcendent Definition Circles

Do (1-2 min each): Results, Feelings, Behaviour.


  • “I am not good enough”
  • “I need to be perfect”
  • “I don’t have permission”
  • “Seeking Validation”
  • “Its not my role / I can’t fulfill a masculine role”

Transcending / Nondual

  • “I am / I am the light / I am whole”
  • “I am real”
  • “I don’t need permission”
  • “Wholeness”
  • “There are no roles” (NOT: “I can do a mans role” = Negative vision)

You are just you. Not good, not bad. Just the light. It’s about transcendent definitions! They truly shift energy in a persons consciousness.

Opposite Definition Circles

Do (1-2 min each): Results, Feelings, Behaviour.


  • “I need to be good”
  • “I need to justify my existence”
  • “I need to control my circumstances”
  • “I need to know”
  • “I need to survive”
  • “I have a right to live”
  • “I must….”


  • “It’s ok to be bad / if others think im bad”
  • “There is no purpose to life”
  • “I can’t control what I can’t control”
  • “I don’t know what I don’t know”
  • “Life is a choice”
  • “There is no right to live. Livf is undeserved”
  • “Every moment is a free choice”


Daily for 30 days: Be in each circle for about 30 secs each. You must just feel it, don’t think about it or get lost in a circle. Just notice the definitions and attached emotions. Your subconscious knows what the truth is – you dont need to do anything about it. You are just teaching yourself the opinions, concepts, frequencies which you carry and consist of anyway. Through seeing it you neutralise it.